dont ruin it DJs ...FOR CRYING OUT LOUD IT'S A WEDDING!!

have u been to wedding receptions with Dj playing the "wrong song " for wedding? seriously. it bothers me A LOT ! 

in weddings, u might expect, not might, u would expect romantic ,slow ballad ,beautiful love songs to be played celebration ur union to ur loved one right? 

what if the Dj u hire plays the off songs, not accordance to the wedding. to me, although this seems like a  small matter, if it were my wedding, it sets my mood off .... 

if it were my weeding, id seriously be upset! 

i have been to wedding reception whose dj played Crazy Frog song.. dude, it's a wedding , not a teen wild party ..... seriously u gotta do better job if u want to keep it.

it's annoying. i was eating,and like "  what the heck ...." 

i think that's not the worst . ive been to a wedding reception, the Dj announced soccer result . 

can u believe it ? soccer result !!! 

also , wedding whose dj played nasyid songs . there's nothing wrong with nasyid songs ( good remembrance) but pick those which are align with the occasion! where ive been to, it was nasyid about remembrance of death ... it's good .really good but , it's a wedding .....

it'd be better if the songs are celebrating the love of the newlyweds , praying for their happiness and god blessings for here, and Hereafter. 

like this one from maher zain .

                                                             "Masha Allah"

Agmal farha hiyya
Youm farahko, da shee’ akeed
Zekrayatel leila deyyah
Hadra mesh momkin tegheeb

The most beautiful joy is
On your wedding day - that's for sure
This night's memories
Will always be present and can never fade away

Ehsasel youm dah
Meen fikom yensah
‘Ala toul tegma’ko ahla hayah

The way you feel on this day
How can any of you ever forget it?!
The most beautiful life shall unite you forever

Agmal farha fel hayat kol leila
Helween wallah… Allah Allah
Masha Allah… Masha Allah
Ya salam ya salam, ma tbarko yahl Allah 

Tonight is the biggest happiness in your life
By Allah, you're both beautiful! Allah Allah
Allah has willed it… Allah has willed it
What a joy, what a joy!
Let's congratulate them, everyone!

Ento ‘ala sounnet Nabina
Geeto we katabtol kitab
Wehna tayral farha bina
Welleiladil alb daab

In accordance with our Prophet's teachings
You did the marriage contract ('Aqd-Nikah)
And we're overjoyed for the two of you
And our hearts are melting with happiness on this night

Ehsasel youm dah
Meen fikom yensah
‘Ala toul tegma’ko ahla hayah

The way you feel on this day
How can any of you ever forget it?!
The most beautiful life shall unite you forever

Agmal farha fhayatkol leila
Helween wallah… Allah Allah
Masha Allah… Masha Allah
Ya salam ya salam, ma tbarko yahl Allah 

Tonight is the biggest happiness in your life
By Allah, you're both beautiful! Allah Allah
Allah has willed it… Allah has willed it
What a joy, what a joy!
Let's congratulate them, everyone!

Oulou masha Allah
We ya Rabb te’ishou ahla sneen
Oulou masha Allah
We ya mahla zougeen salheen
Rabbena yegma’ko wayya ba’d fel Gannah
Rabbena yeg’alko toulel ‘omr metfahmeen 

Say: "Allah has willed it"
And may you live the happiest of years
Say: "Allah has willed it"
And how beautiful it is to see such a pious couple!
May Allah unite you together in Paradise
And may He make you live your whole life together in harmony

Agmal farha fhayatkol leila
Helween wallah… Allah Allah
Masha Allah… Masha Allah
Ya salam ya salam, ma tbarko yahl Allah

Tonight is the biggest happiness in your life
By Allah, you're both beautiful! Allah Allah
Allah has willed it… Allah has willed it
What a joy, what a joy!
Let's congratulate them, everyone!

or this one that congratulates them on their day :) 

Barakallah

We're here on this Special Day

Our hearts are full Of pleasure

A day that brings the two of you

Close Together

We're gathered here to celebrate

A moment you'll always treasure

We ask Allah to make your love

Last forever

Let's raise our hands and make du'a

Like the prophet taught us

And with one voice let's all

Say...say...say

Barakallahu lakuma wa baraka

Alaikumaa wa jama'a bainakuma fii khaiiir

From now you'll share all your joys

Through hardships,support each other

Together worshiping Allah

Seeking His Pleasure

We pray that He will feed your life

With Happiness and Blessings

And grant your Kids

who make your home filled with laughter

Let's raise our hands and make du'a

Like the prophet taught us

And with one voice let's all

Say...say...say

Barakallahu lakuma wa baraka

Alaikumaa wa jaama'a bainakuma fii khaiiir

Barakallah

Barakallahu lakuumwalanaa

Allah bariklawhuma

Allah Hadhum hubbahuma

Allah Solli wasallim a'la rasulillah

Allah tub'alaina

Allah irdha anna

Allah ihdhi khuthoona a'la sunnat nabiina

Let's raise our hands and make du'a

Like the prophet taught us

And with one voice let's all

Say...say...say

Barakallahu lakuma wa baraka

Alaikumaa wa jaama'a bainakuma fii khaiiir

see? even dua that Rasulullah practiced ...nice eh?

and girls would love to be serenaded by this, on their wedding day .. 

                                                          For The Rest Of My Life

I praise Allah for sending me you my love

You found me home and sail with me

And I`m here with you

Now let me let you know

You`ve opened my heart

I was always thinking that love was wrong

But everything was changed when you came along

OOOOO

And theres a couple words I want to say

For the rest of my life

I`ll be with you

I`ll stay by your side honest and true

Till the end of my time

I`ll be loving you.loving you

For the rest of my life

Through days and night

I`ll thank Allah for opening my eyes

Now and forever I...I`ll be there for you

I know that deep in my heart

I feel so blessed when I think of you

And I ask Allah to bless all we do

You`re my wife and my friend and my strength

And I pray we`re together in Jannah

Now I find myself i feel so strong

yes, everything was changed when you came along

OOOO

And there's a couple word I want to say

 For the rest of my life

I`ll be with you

I`ll stay by your side honest and true

Till the end of my time

I`ll be loving you.loving you

For the rest of my life

Through days and night

I`ll thank Allah for opening my eyes

Now and forever I...I`ll be there for you

I know that deep in my heart

and now that you`re here

In front of me

 I strongly feel love

And I have no doubt

And I`m singing loud 

that I`ll love you eternally

For the rest of my life

I`ll be with you

I`ll stay by your side honest and true

Till the end of my time

I`ll be loving you...loving you..

For the rest of my life

Through days and nights

I`ll thank Allah 

for opening my eyes

Now and forever I..

.I`ll be there for you

I know it deep in my heart...

i melt every time ...aww... 

there are many more. the point is DJs ...

please please, this isn't about you , if u wanna announce soccer result , do it in appropriate occasion. a wedding is a wedding .... it's love, celebration of two hearts, romantic, slow ,beautiful songs! dont stain it with anything else beside these ya..

i dont like surprises

especially on birthday.. because it wont be surprising. i even hide my bday on FB..  coz only people who really care remembers .. and by doing that, i know who they are. thank u. alhamdulillah for this gift Allah :)

it's ur bday.u'll know it right? people acting all weird , avoided u, keeping secrets .. lol

i dono how to react really.. usually, i just play along because they are nice people, good ones who remember and celebrate my birth anniversary

but im truly grateful for that. i want to reciprocate what they do . thank you.

but personally, i do like presents n cake, and everyone gather for me, but i hate surprises.. 

i prefer , on my birthday, people ask me to a restaurant or anything filled the table with cake and food n we ALL eat together and celebrate.  that's more like it.

no need to hide stuff and exclude me to do the preparation and all. and i do feel like im lying every time i have to react . i m happy but like i said i already know .. 

so yeah, i prefer " happy birthday!! lets go out and celebrate :) !"