Reminder for myself,also reminder for anybody who r in THIS kind of circumstances...

i got this from a friend of mine.. good analogy indeed.

We may have planned our life beautifully, but Allah determines it all.Things may not happen as we planned them, but watever  happens, it is for the best.

Also, IT may not seem like it's THE BEST THING, in ALLAH's knowledge, IT IS!

Bcoz ALLAH knows everything we know not.. right?...............

we always think like WE KNOW what we want/ what we need, but the truth is whatever we want, or whoever we want may not be suitable for us to have, thats y we have Allah to decide whats best..getting too engrossed of what we're havin or planning, Allah "wakes us up" by giving us obstacles... one way of saying "hey this isnt good for u, im gonna give u sth/someone better,wake up". the way we "wake up" may be different. it cud be with tears, joy, also fear.. any kind.the obstacles maybe something real good, it cud be not so good..



Fate, destiny isnt what we control, we only can make effort, and lastly tawakkal. After that, it's up to ALLAH to decide.


Here's the story...

Once upon a time, a well-known painter was working on a painting. It's an incredibly beautiful painting to be shown at the Airport during the upcoming festival season. The painter wanted this painting to be a master piece.

He worked on it for weeks on the top of a 24 storey building. He was consumed by and excited with his own painting that he unconsciously took a few step backward while admiring the 2 x 8 m painting. He didn't look back when he walked backward. He kept on walking backward until it was a step away from the edge of the 24 storey building. Just one more step backward and he could have fallen to his death.

A man saw what the painter was doing and was about to shout at him to warn him when he realized that his shout might surprise the painter and thus make him take that fatal one step backward and fall down. So the man took a brush and some paint and began to paint on the beautiful painting until it was damaged.

Upon realizing what happened to his painting, the painter got very angry and moved forward to hit the man. However, some other people who were also present at the vicinity held him and showed him his last position which almost made him fall.

MORAL: Sometimes we have planned our future with such beauty and dreamed of beautiful days we will spend with our loved one, but then ALLAH seems ( WAT WE SEE AS DESTROYING, actually, it isn’t) to destroy our beautiful painting when HE sees what danger lies ahead of us. Sometimes we are angry and annoyed by what ALLAH has done to us,(which is true) but one thing we have to keep in our mind is that our Creator is Most Wise and always keeps our best of interest in mind!

So when ALLAH in His Infinite Wisdom, tests us with a situation that we think is difficult or takes away something that in our mind was good for us, we need to remember that perhaps it may not be so. Perhaps if we had continued in our way, it might have been harmful for us and whatever ALLAH decreed for us is actually better for us, for He is All-Wise and All-Knowing.

reminder for me

Allah understands when nobody does..."talk" to Allah ..

"When My servants ask thee concerning Me, I am indeed close (to them): I listen to the prayer of every suppliant when he calleth on Me: Let them also, with a will, Listen to My call, and believe in Me: That they may walk in the right way."( Al- Baqarah : 186)

Lessons learnt.

# 1   When Allah gives a test towards me, and it hurts,it doesnt mean Allah is mad at me, it means HE pays attention to me and miss my voice to plead dua to HIM. It MEANS, HE LOVES ME SO MUCH that HE doesnt want my heart to be taken care of a man, Allah wants my heart to be always closer to him. To make me realise, other human can hurt, but Allah is always there to heal, and listen and reward sth/someone even better, n most important, will never ever hurt.

# 2    Internet communication/relation doesnt end in happy endings. (those who do meet their happily ever after online, u guys are chosen ones. not all are lucky) . to me, the best that cud happen on internet social network is  ( particularly yahoo coz fb is more reliable - i guess??) u become best friends with other person, and nothing more.

# 3    Men can be sweet, very friendly, and caring, but mean nothing more than just a friend online (smart, cunning ones). if u think more, its your fault. bare in mind that u both are 2 different persons who are total strangers, spending time online and both need someone decent to talk to. U two found one another, and get along very well bcoz both of u have the same needs! ( u both are bored and having sth very much in common! thats all, nothing more!) . if ur heart feels sth, its comfort n pleasant, not LOVE! get it? one person falls , another wants just a good chat friend. see where the tears go? see whos with  the broken heart, n who feels nothin??? hmm..no matter how nice u are, or how much u both have things in common, if one have set the relation to be only friendship the other cant do anything about it. clear?

 # 4   Googling is good, facebooking, tweeting,onlining is good, having a social network (controlled one) is also good, but dont forget the real world ppl lol ... bcoz when ur having a melt down with the "virtual ppl" u'll still have ur real friends around u, go out, get some fresh air lol. chill!

# 5       Be thankful of what we have now,bcoz if we count / pay attention to what we dont have we'll never have enough and always feel unlucky. Alhamdulillah, Allah made me "found" this kinda ppl, so that i learnt from them, they've shown to me what type of person i DONT WANT TO BE. to be very careful on trusting ppl, although he may be educated,respected,religious even, everybody has a little devil in them. we all do rite? 

# 6      the truth might hurt, but its the reality, face it! take it as valuable experience/lesson. 10 years from now, i may laugh about it =P