Lessons learnt.

# 1   When Allah gives a test towards me, and it hurts,it doesnt mean Allah is mad at me, it means HE pays attention to me and miss my voice to plead dua to HIM. It MEANS, HE LOVES ME SO MUCH that HE doesnt want my heart to be taken care of a man, Allah wants my heart to be always closer to him. To make me realise, other human can hurt, but Allah is always there to heal, and listen and reward sth/someone even better, n most important, will never ever hurt.

# 2    Internet communication/relation doesnt end in happy endings. (those who do meet their happily ever after online, u guys are chosen ones. not all are lucky) . to me, the best that cud happen on internet social network is  ( particularly yahoo coz fb is more reliable - i guess??) u become best friends with other person, and nothing more.

# 3    Men can be sweet, very friendly, and caring, but mean nothing more than just a friend online (smart, cunning ones). if u think more, its your fault. bare in mind that u both are 2 different persons who are total strangers, spending time online and both need someone decent to talk to. U two found one another, and get along very well bcoz both of u have the same needs! ( u both are bored and having sth very much in common! thats all, nothing more!) . if ur heart feels sth, its comfort n pleasant, not LOVE! get it? one person falls , another wants just a good chat friend. see where the tears go? see whos with  the broken heart, n who feels nothin??? hmm..no matter how nice u are, or how much u both have things in common, if one have set the relation to be only friendship the other cant do anything about it. clear?

 # 4   Googling is good, facebooking, tweeting,onlining is good, having a social network (controlled one) is also good, but dont forget the real world ppl lol ... bcoz when ur having a melt down with the "virtual ppl" u'll still have ur real friends around u, go out, get some fresh air lol. chill!

# 5       Be thankful of what we have now,bcoz if we count / pay attention to what we dont have we'll never have enough and always feel unlucky. Alhamdulillah, Allah made me "found" this kinda ppl, so that i learnt from them, they've shown to me what type of person i DONT WANT TO BE. to be very careful on trusting ppl, although he may be educated,respected,religious even, everybody has a little devil in them. we all do rite? 

# 6      the truth might hurt, but its the reality, face it! take it as valuable experience/lesson. 10 years from now, i may laugh about it =P