COUPLE
Teens mmg suka title ni i bet. Mmg pon. kalau tgk kat mall, pasar malam , sekolah , xyah cakap kat mana2 ada. Skg budak 8 taun dah pandai couple.(tergelak aku bila i found this out - dari surat cinta budak dajah 2)
Dgn bangganya tulis kat facebook in relationship with ___.. kan3? haa da kantoi..
I know it is something wonderful that make u feel inspired, motivated, complete and a brand new person and all. I been through it once. It is not a bad thing, it is a gift.Do u know LOVE is one of God's greatest gift selain dari keamanan, rezeki, kesihatan tubuh, akal.. Iman is the greatest gift of all. Tp byk couple skg atas nama LOVE, buat kemungkaran mcm....issue buang baby, premarital sex..eee semua ni salah! u give LOVE a bad name.
We, especially to Muslims la, patut tau our limit.Agama kita ckp jgn dekat dgn perkara2 yg mmbawa pd zina.Aku bukanlah alim sgt ke, perempuan surau ke ape, hehe..cuma aku tau limit yg digariskan agama. Nak ckp aku baik sgt xla pon. I act based on what our religion taught us.
I admit, i had a bf long ago.(now i positively think it's puppy love . yah . confident!) Aku pon kapel masa aku hingusan dulu LOL. I was sincire. tp the guy wasnt kot. Dah lain2 agama, what was i thinkin kan? the good thing is, walaupon kapel dgn mat saleh christian, aku still jg batas aku. Dia mmg agak liar. Aku dpt wat dia hormatkan aku selama dia dgn aku. Mcm tundukkan KING COBRA tau. Fuhh! Pengajarannya, walau dgn sapa pon, kat mana pon, syg mcm mana pon, jaga limit agama..or else, ur gonna get in trouble...u know what i mean kan?
Cuma curious dgn budak2 skg ni...
Questions...
Jumpa bf / gf via texting or online. Bole percaya ke? Kalau xnampak muka n berjauhan, atuk 70 tahun pon bole mengaku 17 adik oii (im writing this in 2012, my advice google him/her - works for me!)
couple atas betul2 suka ke, sbb nak top up ke, sbb rupa yg cantik n handsome ke, atau org lain kapel, kamoo pon nak kapel jgk? Bangga bila ditanya, kamoo bukan solo tp ada bf or gf. Atau nak buat list ex gf or bf masing2?.Advice...
Guys yg sweet talker, jgn percaya la dik, dah kat 1000 perempuan mereka ckp ayat yg sama, semua cair.. xkan kamoo pon nak jadi rapuh mcm mereka. nak ke lelaki yg mcm tu? kalau masa couple pon dah xsetia, dh kahwin apa lg. Jgn, just simply say NO & reject this kinda guy..
Bagi aku selagi xjumpa insan yg betul2 ikhlas n ada chemistry, xkapel pon xpe. xmati pon dik... idop je. sihat walafiat. x payah nak desperate cari kapel, dah desperate sgt, org yg unemployed, kaki ponteng, kaki apa2 je la kamoo bole amik jd bf ( for girls). jangan.. we girls are way precious. Biar je, org lain kapel , kamoo xkapel.. apa yg kamoo ada?, maybe 4 flat dlm tangan, a good job, and stable life ( bg yg dah keje la)...Kalau dh mcm ni, xyah cari, petik jari je, ramai lelaki BAIK, SOLEH, EDUACTED, PERFECT sebut je la apa2 berduyun-duyun akan kejar kamoo.
Lg satu, do not play with other peoples feelings. Remember, karma; what goes around comes around. Kalau suka terima seadanya, kalau xsesuai, or xsuka or apa2 je, jgn biarkan she, or he, waiting or wondering mcm la dia tu pengemis. She or he might get hurt by ur decision, tp kalau kamoo xnak dia, jgn teruskan till he or she dah like u so much, susah nak break the news to them. Stop while u can. Tolak dgn cara baik. Jaga hati mereka yg syg / sukakan kamoo. Stay friends, or at least appreciate them well, as good as they appreciated u.
Sharing biar la bertempat. Learn what to give, what to protect. If u want to share your happiness, sadness with him or her, that's something TO DO in a relationship. Sharing is caring kan? What NOT TO DO is, kalau belum ada ikatan sah, by the religion and legal means, xpayah la nak share lebih2 ( u know what i mean). Girls, respect yourselves. Boys, do no treat a girl like some kind of clothings. U like it, u wear it, then, when u dont need it anymore, u throw it away to the trash bin as if it is some useless rags. Sharing the joy and the pain together tighten the relationship.
Control what u share with him or her.U dont want any trouble after the break-up. ( i read newspapers , watch tv. u know what im talkin about)
True story...
Rules...
Nak kapel, kapel je la. Aku tahu girls semua diciptakan Allah cantik, istimewa, kalau xdari segi rupa, byk faktor lain yg membuatkan kamoo tu sgtla precious nye..Ramai lelaki suka. Then, tersebutlah kisah mereka, kaum Adam tu nak berkapel dgn kamoo. Mmg fitrah la, kalau ada org suka, mesti kamoo pon rasa suka juga . Lepas tu ,kamoo pon berkapel la. Dah kapel tu, pandaila jaga batas agama.. tu je. Jaga diri and maruah kamoo.. Ingat girls. Put yourself di tempat yg paling tinggi. Imagine yourselves as a rare diamond , yg hanya tinggal satu je lagi kat bumi ni. The last one . One in a million. U are soooooooooooooo precious, priceless, and only one guy yg bertuah je yg bole miliki kamoo. Bukan semua, bukan calang2 lelaki bole sentuh kamoo. Jaga la diri tu. I am a girl ,so aku nak jaga la saudara seagama aku. Dulu zaman jahiliah, women xde harga, jadi hamba, x dihormati, mcm toys je. Bila Islam dtg, Rasulullah letakkan wanita kat tempat yg tinggi. From zero, to hero. Rasulullah s.a.w penat2 angkat martabat wanita zaman Jahiliah dulu, skg kamoo nak balik ke zaman tu balik ke? Dgn rela hatinye kamoo bg bf kamoo pegang tangan kamoo. Nak pegang, sentuh, semua tu hak suami kamoo, bukan bf yg xtentu lagi ntah jadi suami kamoo ke tidak tu ye wahai minah2 sekelian...Sedar la selagi bf kamoo tu blom jd suami kamoo, he's nobody, a stranger..
Aku harap adik2 junior or kawan2 bole dpt benefit dr post ni. Aku bukan nak tnjuk baik atau pape, IM a MUSLIM, aku just tolong nasihatkan ape yg aku rase pelu.
Dgn bangganya tulis kat facebook in relationship with ___.. kan3? haa da kantoi..
I know it is something wonderful that make u feel inspired, motivated, complete and a brand new person and all. I been through it once. It is not a bad thing, it is a gift.Do u know LOVE is one of God's greatest gift selain dari keamanan, rezeki, kesihatan tubuh, akal.. Iman is the greatest gift of all. Tp byk couple skg atas nama LOVE, buat kemungkaran mcm....issue buang baby, premarital sex..eee semua ni salah! u give LOVE a bad name.
We, especially to Muslims la, patut tau our limit.Agama kita ckp jgn dekat dgn perkara2 yg mmbawa pd zina.Aku bukanlah alim sgt ke, perempuan surau ke ape, hehe..cuma aku tau limit yg digariskan agama. Nak ckp aku baik sgt xla pon. I act based on what our religion taught us.
I admit, i had a bf long ago.(now i positively think it's puppy love . yah . confident!) Aku pon kapel masa aku hingusan dulu LOL. I was sincire. tp the guy wasnt kot. Dah lain2 agama, what was i thinkin kan? the good thing is, walaupon kapel dgn mat saleh christian, aku still jg batas aku. Dia mmg agak liar. Aku dpt wat dia hormatkan aku selama dia dgn aku. Mcm tundukkan KING COBRA tau. Fuhh! Pengajarannya, walau dgn sapa pon, kat mana pon, syg mcm mana pon, jaga limit agama..or else, ur gonna get in trouble...u know what i mean kan?
Cuma curious dgn budak2 skg ni...
Questions...
Jumpa bf / gf via texting or online. Bole percaya ke? Kalau xnampak muka n berjauhan, atuk 70 tahun pon bole mengaku 17 adik oii (im writing this in 2012, my advice google him/her - works for me!)
couple atas betul2 suka ke, sbb nak top up ke, sbb rupa yg cantik n handsome ke, atau org lain kapel, kamoo pon nak kapel jgk? Bangga bila ditanya, kamoo bukan solo tp ada bf or gf. Atau nak buat list ex gf or bf masing2?.
You'll never find the right person if u dont let go the wrong one....
Guys yg sweet talker, jgn percaya la dik, dah kat 1000 perempuan mereka ckp ayat yg sama, semua cair.. xkan kamoo pon nak jadi rapuh mcm mereka. nak ke lelaki yg mcm tu? kalau masa couple pon dah xsetia, dh kahwin apa lg. Jgn, just simply say NO & reject this kinda guy..
Bagi aku selagi xjumpa insan yg betul2 ikhlas n ada chemistry, xkapel pon xpe. xmati pon dik... idop je. sihat walafiat. x payah nak desperate cari kapel, dah desperate sgt, org yg unemployed, kaki ponteng, kaki apa2 je la kamoo bole amik jd bf ( for girls). jangan.. we girls are way precious. Biar je, org lain kapel , kamoo xkapel.. apa yg kamoo ada?, maybe 4 flat dlm tangan, a good job, and stable life ( bg yg dah keje la)...Kalau dh mcm ni, xyah cari, petik jari je, ramai lelaki BAIK, SOLEH, EDUACTED, PERFECT sebut je la apa2 berduyun-duyun akan kejar kamoo.
Lg satu, do not play with other peoples feelings. Remember, karma; what goes around comes around. Kalau suka terima seadanya, kalau xsesuai, or xsuka or apa2 je, jgn biarkan she, or he, waiting or wondering mcm la dia tu pengemis. She or he might get hurt by ur decision, tp kalau kamoo xnak dia, jgn teruskan till he or she dah like u so much, susah nak break the news to them. Stop while u can. Tolak dgn cara baik. Jaga hati mereka yg syg / sukakan kamoo. Stay friends, or at least appreciate them well, as good as they appreciated u.
Sharing biar la bertempat. Learn what to give, what to protect. If u want to share your happiness, sadness with him or her, that's something TO DO in a relationship. Sharing is caring kan? What NOT TO DO is, kalau belum ada ikatan sah, by the religion and legal means, xpayah la nak share lebih2 ( u know what i mean). Girls, respect yourselves. Boys, do no treat a girl like some kind of clothings. U like it, u wear it, then, when u dont need it anymore, u throw it away to the trash bin as if it is some useless rags. Sharing the joy and the pain together tighten the relationship.
Control what u share with him or her.U dont want any trouble after the break-up. ( i read newspapers , watch tv. u know what im talkin about)
Do not ask, just give and take.DO NOT DEMAND .Materialistic person isnt an ideal person to fall in love with. What it means is, If she or he give u something which u didnt ask for,say thank u and let him or her see that u appreciate it. Anything that is given without u asking it, comes from the bottom of da heart and given sincirely, which is BEAUTIFUL! Even it is just something lame like a hair clip! Give sincirely. U give him/ her like 99% love. Maybe, just MAYBE he/ she loves u 95% back ( u gotta admit it, before ur married to him or her, there's a lot of temptation. Maybe she / he admire someone else, maybe he/she is with u only bcoz of certain factors, many many MAYBE.unsure). My point is, what u give , u give it honestly, sincirely, no lie. And if he or she dumps u, IT'S THEIR LOSS to lose someone like U!
When u like/ love somebody, show it, let em know. If ur in a relationship, tell ur partner how much they mean to u. Dont forget the 3 words. Often. Cakap je jgn sentuh! Showing love not only by physical means ok! ( like kiss and etc!)..Xbole sentuh ok! susah sgt ke nak faham rules. (muslims).It is important for them to know. U buy gifts, a car, a house! maybe, but u forgot to tell em how much u love em. Kinda waste..
Do not rush into marriege. My advice to students especially. Kalau yg buat diploma tu, get engaged ke dulu, habis degree baru la bole get married. In my opinion, a woman, should have her stable life first before getting married. I mean, finish your degree, get a good job, have a stable income, stand on your own feet firmly, then, if u have the love of ur life waiting for u, yeah u can get married!.. The reason im saying all of these is, we donno whats gonna happen in da future and all. Death do us part, divorce , stuff like that. Just be prepared women! We dont wanna be the damsel in distress...dependant and weak. Life isnt a fairy tale ok! nor a bed of roses either.. Lets say, he dies, or u both get divorced, u have ur own job, income, ur stable. U can build a new life. No worries. ( Bukan mintak bercerai-berai sumer, just be prepared.)
Kahwin muda??? im voting a big NO if u ask me. Why rush?.Berhingus lagi. Jodoh xkan lari nyer. If u are meant to be, destined to be with him, u have a lifetime to spend with him. U may get bored LOL (haha jokin ) . What's the rush??? .Marriege is a huge commitment and big responsibilty. Youth comes just once. Study, graduate, get a job, enjoy ur teen ages, and when it is time, and u r ready, give a " Yes" to the one u cant afford to live a day without .spend the rest of ur life with him.Da stable sumer , baru la bole live happily ever afta.. Mcm tu baru la betol!
When u like/ love somebody, show it, let em know. If ur in a relationship, tell ur partner how much they mean to u. Dont forget the 3 words. Often. Cakap je jgn sentuh! Showing love not only by physical means ok! ( like kiss and etc!)..Xbole sentuh ok! susah sgt ke nak faham rules. (muslims).It is important for them to know. U buy gifts, a car, a house! maybe, but u forgot to tell em how much u love em. Kinda waste..
Do not rush into marriege. My advice to students especially. Kalau yg buat diploma tu, get engaged ke dulu, habis degree baru la bole get married. In my opinion, a woman, should have her stable life first before getting married. I mean, finish your degree, get a good job, have a stable income, stand on your own feet firmly, then, if u have the love of ur life waiting for u, yeah u can get married!.. The reason im saying all of these is, we donno whats gonna happen in da future and all. Death do us part, divorce , stuff like that. Just be prepared women! We dont wanna be the damsel in distress...dependant and weak. Life isnt a fairy tale ok! nor a bed of roses either.. Lets say, he dies, or u both get divorced, u have ur own job, income, ur stable. U can build a new life. No worries. ( Bukan mintak bercerai-berai sumer, just be prepared.)
Kahwin muda??? im voting a big NO if u ask me. Why rush?.Berhingus lagi. Jodoh xkan lari nyer. If u are meant to be, destined to be with him, u have a lifetime to spend with him. U may get bored LOL (haha jokin ) . What's the rush??? .Marriege is a huge commitment and big responsibilty. Youth comes just once. Study, graduate, get a job, enjoy ur teen ages, and when it is time, and u r ready, give a " Yes" to the one u cant afford to live a day without .spend the rest of ur life with him.Da stable sumer , baru la bole live happily ever afta.. Mcm tu baru la betol!
True story...
Masa PLKN dulu dlm surau, time nk tggu isya' . Budak perempuan bercakap2 pasal kapel kt belakang aku.Aku terpasang telinga. (Dh xde keje..) . Soalan dy, " Eh, bila pakwe ko start sentuh ko?" " Aku masa form 1" (Dia yg tnya, dia jawab)... Dgn bangganya perempuan tu tanya soalan mcm tu. Aku ingat aku ni yg salah dengar. tp betol la. Mmg perempuan tu tanya soalan tu pd kawan dia. Ceh, pakai tudung tutup litup, dlm surau tanya soalan mcm gitu plak. Perempuan tu bukan perempuan free hair ke ape. Yg pakai tudug elok je. Terkejut jgk la mula2.. Sbb aku x exposed pd semua mende mcm ni dulu. So lesson learnt is, perempuan pakai tudung pon xley caye dah skg nih... kalau dh kapel tu , bangga, cerita bila bf dia start sentuh dia. Seram!!!
Rules...
- A special relationship involves 2 person, my rule is, when one of the 2 buat hal, ( cheating, ignoring, harass) the other one is free to decide the relationship goes on or off whether the other likes it or not.
- U both are still strangers before marriege OK! do not share pin codes, passwords, account no, or anything important. He or she maybe important in your life that time, what happens next, we never know. Watch it!
- Treat ur bf like a husband? I saw my friend did it. Like u know, ask permission, bow when u passed by him ( like u do to ur granpa or ur dad) . Crap! what is that??? Hello.. kapel je baru.. xkawen lagi. Syurga istri bawah tpk kaki suami bukan tapak kaki BF yer...
- Be yourself, u are still u, just in relationship. Doesnt mean u have to ask permission from ur bf or anything. Thats just disgusting rubbish . Mengarut.
Nak kapel, kapel je la. Aku tahu girls semua diciptakan Allah cantik, istimewa, kalau xdari segi rupa, byk faktor lain yg membuatkan kamoo tu sgtla precious nye..Ramai lelaki suka. Then, tersebutlah kisah mereka, kaum Adam tu nak berkapel dgn kamoo. Mmg fitrah la, kalau ada org suka, mesti kamoo pon rasa suka juga . Lepas tu ,kamoo pon berkapel la. Dah kapel tu, pandaila jaga batas agama.. tu je. Jaga diri and maruah kamoo.. Ingat girls. Put yourself di tempat yg paling tinggi. Imagine yourselves as a rare diamond , yg hanya tinggal satu je lagi kat bumi ni. The last one . One in a million. U are soooooooooooooo precious, priceless, and only one guy yg bertuah je yg bole miliki kamoo. Bukan semua, bukan calang2 lelaki bole sentuh kamoo. Jaga la diri tu. I am a girl ,so aku nak jaga la saudara seagama aku. Dulu zaman jahiliah, women xde harga, jadi hamba, x dihormati, mcm toys je. Bila Islam dtg, Rasulullah letakkan wanita kat tempat yg tinggi. From zero, to hero. Rasulullah s.a.w penat2 angkat martabat wanita zaman Jahiliah dulu, skg kamoo nak balik ke zaman tu balik ke? Dgn rela hatinye kamoo bg bf kamoo pegang tangan kamoo. Nak pegang, sentuh, semua tu hak suami kamoo, bukan bf yg xtentu lagi ntah jadi suami kamoo ke tidak tu ye wahai minah2 sekelian...Sedar la selagi bf kamoo tu blom jd suami kamoo, he's nobody, a stranger..
Aku harap adik2 junior or kawan2 bole dpt benefit dr post ni. Aku bukan nak tnjuk baik atau pape, IM a MUSLIM, aku just tolong nasihatkan ape yg aku rase pelu.
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