i dont want dating .. i court
Most people with a lasting relationship and loving marriage will tell you they are best friends, or that their relationship started off as a friendship and grew into love. I believe that is where courtship comes into play – when two friends fall in love, want to get married, and begin a courtship. Both the man and woman are aware that their relationship is leading to marriage, and in due time, they will tie the knot. Granted, they are more than likely to say they are “dating”, as that word is most commonly used in today’s society, but essentially, they are courting.
With dating, the ambiguity of the relationship and its unclear future, can be both disturbing and heartbreaking. Intentions need to be made exceptionally clear right from the onset, so that both the man and woman can act accordingly. If you’re dating to get to know someone, good luck, because let’s face it, most people are on their best behavior on a ‘just a date’.
If you build a friendship first, then you already know the person, and in courting them, you see if they would be a suitable spouse for you. -copy paste
kids date . wiser ,mature ppl court .. i guess :)
her sister, dr Hamizah Yunos also courted for 10 years with a doctor.who was also her schoomate. now they have a baby girl !! like them ..
Most people with a lasting relationship and loving marriage will tell you they are best friends, or that their relationship started off as a friendship and grew into love. I believe that is where courtship comes into play – when two friends fall in love, want to get married, and begin a courtship. Both the man and woman are aware that their relationship is leading to marriage, and in due time, they will tie the knot. Granted, they are more than likely to say they are “dating”, as that word is most commonly used in today’s society, but essentially, they are courting.
With dating, the ambiguity of the relationship and its unclear future, can be both disturbing and heartbreaking. Intentions need to be made exceptionally clear right from the onset, so that both the man and woman can act accordingly. If you’re dating to get to know someone, good luck, because let’s face it, most people are on their best behavior on a ‘just a date’.
If you build a friendship first, then you already know the person, and in courting them, you see if they would be a suitable spouse for you. -copy paste
kids date . wiser ,mature ppl court .. i guess :)
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| these two are my inspiration .. they courted :) 8 years they waited to be married .dr sheikh muszaphar shukor and Dr Halina Yunos . now they have 2 kids! and many more to come :) |
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